About Reflective Questioning®

Reflective Questioning® (RQ) is a profound, advanced coaching technique that has helped thousands of people make rapid, permanent and real change!

Reflective Questioning® is different because...

  1. It is a results-oriented and client-focused inquiry process. It gives clients total freedom in which to explore their unique needs and truth without any outside influence.
  2. It helps clients evaluate and draw important conclusions, which empower them to make more discerning choices about how to wisely proceed in work and life.
  3. It directs clients to the root cause of their limitations and how they undermine their success.
  4. When these root causes are revealed fully, they actually support clients to make important adjustments easily.
  5. Implementing these adjustments renews and propels client’s forward at an unprecedented pace, finally getting the traction they desire without backsliding.

Through Reflective Questioning®, you will ...

  • Understand yourself and your motivation.
  • Be inspired to wisely adjust how to respond and conduct your work and life
  • Achieve greater clarity and move forward at a steadfast pace
  • Become resilient and resourceful regardless of life’s circumstances
  • Gain a stronger ability to problem-solve and resolve conflicts with ease
  • Develop outstanding effectiveness, excellence, and integrity in all ways
  • Gain the confidence and capacity to create the work and life you truly love!
“I greatly appreciate the grounded, engaged, and clear approach of moving towards self-reflection and mastery that is working with Chārutā within Reflective Questioning.  I have found, with her support, I am able to form a plan and create movement away from being “stuck” towards improvement—often surprised at how quickly and effectively her style of coaching creates change. I am blessed our paths have crossed. I would highly recommend Chārutā to anyone seeking expansion in clarity and a fruitful life.”
Erica Burns
Health Info. Management, Monroe, WA
“We all need someone in our lives to help us identify what is holding us back from living the life we want, and to hold us accountable to our vision for ourselves. Chārutā has a wonderful balance of being gentle, yet firm (with your own words, not hers). She listens carefully, and asks the right questions that lead to your own answers. Chārutā is an excellent coach. If you need more clarity or accountability in your life, I would recommend getting on her schedule.”
Dr. April Graham
Registered Naturopathic Doctor, Longmont, CO
April Graham

The Foundational Theory Behind RQ®

External symptoms may be similar, but internal causes vary dramatically.

Take for example two professionals who have a similar career problem of being overworked and underpaid. The external symptoms of this issue can be quite similar (they both struggle to make ends meet, feel exhausted and don’t have enough time for family), yet the internal causes for their situation can be as variable as clouds in the sky. One individual is stuck in this scenario because they struggle with confidence and so never took career risks that would have supported them because they could have resulted in failure. The other person is in this situation because they were in an abusive relationship and are now raising three children on their own. And so on and so forth…

It is because causes of issues are uniquely individual that RQ is completely customized and client-directed. As a Reflective Question facilitator, I know that I don’t know. This fosters deep listening and getting 100% out of the way!

You, and only you, have the answers to your own issues or concerns.  

We live in a demanding world, filled with distractions, expectations and intellectual explanations. Your answers may be covered over or hidden from your conscious view for a variety of reasons, but they are there, waiting to be discovered. In fact, no one is better equipped to find the answers or to determine the best course of action to take than you!

This is why Reflective Question facilitators respectfully and compassionately assist clients to find their own answers and how to live by them instead of “leading” or offering advice. Answers generated from within are much more powerful than answers given from an outside source—a best-kept secret for effective, rapid and lasting change.

    "Look for the answer inside your question." ~ Rumi